Things have been pretty quiet around here. Denny has been resting and sleeping...just like the doctor ordered. He has had visitors twice since we have been home. We have been keeping a low profile; not going anywhere. We are still trying to keep the infection down.
Denny is eating very well and sleeping good. Yesterday, he took a pain pill. I think that is the first one since he has been home. His head was hurting "like when you eat a cold ice cream". The incision looks good and is healing rapidly.
Can't ask for better than that.......
Love to all,
Deb
Monday, May 31, 2010
Sunday, May 30, 2010
Let the healing begin!
Yesterday was very busy. Dana and Dan had to go to their last day of school. Yes, it finished on Saturday...very strange. Then, Dan went to a friend's house for a birthday party/sleepover. Dana went to a graduation party for her friend, Aaron. Denny rested. He has been very relaxed and resting alot since we got home. His boss, Johnny, came by for a little while to visit on Saturday. Denny really enjoyed that. However, for the most part, he has been keeping a low profile and following doctor's orders. Let the healing begin!
From The Woodruff 4: we hope you have a very fun and safe Memorial Day!
Love to all,
Deb
From The Woodruff 4: we hope you have a very fun and safe Memorial Day!
Love to all,
Deb
Friday, May 28, 2010
A Well Loved Man
I finally got the pictures off of my camera that I've promised to post. The bottom picture is of Denny with his Aunt Anna & Uncle Glen, sister Anita, Brother-in-law Jim and brother Mike at Rigazzi's. (I'm not sure if I spelled the name correctly. You know...it's that Italian place on the hill! :)
The top is a picture of the warm welcome home Denny received from the kids. He is a well loved man!
Love to all,
Deb
Home Sweet Home!
It is so good to be home! (Denny is still sleeping!) We got here about 5:30 p.m. yesterday. There was quite a welcome waiting for us. The kids made a big "WELCOME HOME" banner and hung it across the doorway. Mom had made my favorite dinner (Lasagna) and Denny's favorite dessert (banana creme pie). It was ready for us when we walked in the door. After we enjoyed the meal together, Denny sat down in his favorite chair to watch TV. When I looked in on him a little later, he was sleeping. The King was back in his castle!
My mom and I sat on the deck with a glass of wine and enjoyed the evening breeze. I know the battle isn't over, but for this moment in time, all is right in our world. Time will give Denny the opportunity to heal and me, a chance to regroup. Then, The Woodruff 4 will stand together to face the enemy again. We know there is a great "team" standing with us. Thank you for the cards, visits, gifts, emails, and prayers. You have made all the difference!
Love to all,
Deb
My mom and I sat on the deck with a glass of wine and enjoyed the evening breeze. I know the battle isn't over, but for this moment in time, all is right in our world. Time will give Denny the opportunity to heal and me, a chance to regroup. Then, The Woodruff 4 will stand together to face the enemy again. We know there is a great "team" standing with us. Thank you for the cards, visits, gifts, emails, and prayers. You have made all the difference!
Love to all,
Deb
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Homeward Bound
It looks like we are headed home to Nashville. The chemo doctor, Dr. Adkins, is booked solid for a week and a half. We have to come back to town in 3 weeks anyway so we will see him then. That will give Dr. Adkins more time to look at Denny's situation and come up with a plan.
I will continue to update the blog daily. Please know that Denny and I appreciate your support and prayers. As I mentioned before, all of you are links in the chain that make Denny stronger. Thank you!
Love to all,
Deb
I will continue to update the blog daily. Please know that Denny and I appreciate your support and prayers. As I mentioned before, all of you are links in the chain that make Denny stronger. Thank you!
Love to all,
Deb
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
The Battle Continues
We just got back from the doctor appointments today. Dr. Chicoine, the neurosurgeon, was very pleased with Denny's progress. The staples were removed from the incision. I counted 47! He said he wanted to see Denny in a month and that it would be okay for him to work remotely from home. He also said the 24 hour supervision is over! Yay! Dr. Chicoine said he wants to do an MRI in about 3 months.
Then, we went to see Dr. Haughey, the Ear-Nose-Throat doc. It was there that we found out the battle is still on. The tumor and margins taken during surgery were clear. However, he did little biopsies around the area as a precaution. The pathology report confirmed that there are still SNUC cells present. Malignant cells were found in his nasal floor and the lining of the sinus cavity. Dr. Haughey said it is not possible to surgically remove these because they have no shape. They are just intermingled with healthy cells. They are so miniscule that they do not show up on scans.
We have to stay in town to talk to Dr. Adkins, Denny's chemo doc from the first time. Chemo may be an option and that is what we need to find out from him. However, Denny would not be able to start right away. It is necessary for him to heal from the surgery first. Denny also has a "superficial" sinus infection so he will be starting antibiotics again.
The other option, at this time, is to monitor the cells and wait for them to form a mass. Then, Dr. Haughey can go in and surgically remove it (if the location allows). Time will tell.
We will do everything possible to save Denny's life. How can you help? Keep saying prayers for him. There is immense power there. Remember our motto - "Accept no defeat!" We are not giving up or giving in. The Battle continues....
Love to all,
Deb
Then, we went to see Dr. Haughey, the Ear-Nose-Throat doc. It was there that we found out the battle is still on. The tumor and margins taken during surgery were clear. However, he did little biopsies around the area as a precaution. The pathology report confirmed that there are still SNUC cells present. Malignant cells were found in his nasal floor and the lining of the sinus cavity. Dr. Haughey said it is not possible to surgically remove these because they have no shape. They are just intermingled with healthy cells. They are so miniscule that they do not show up on scans.
We have to stay in town to talk to Dr. Adkins, Denny's chemo doc from the first time. Chemo may be an option and that is what we need to find out from him. However, Denny would not be able to start right away. It is necessary for him to heal from the surgery first. Denny also has a "superficial" sinus infection so he will be starting antibiotics again.
The other option, at this time, is to monitor the cells and wait for them to form a mass. Then, Dr. Haughey can go in and surgically remove it (if the location allows). Time will tell.
We will do everything possible to save Denny's life. How can you help? Keep saying prayers for him. There is immense power there. Remember our motto - "Accept no defeat!" We are not giving up or giving in. The Battle continues....
Love to all,
Deb
And the Winner is......
Today is Denny's follow-up day. He will see both Dr. Chicoine and Dr. Haughey. I think they are going to be very pleased when they see Denny. We have been careful about infection so his incision looks pretty good. I will be sure to post to the blog afterwards so that you know what the outcome is.
Yesterday, we had visitors. Uncle Glen and Aunt Anna came in from Farmington. We met Mike, Anita & Jim on the hill for an early dinner. It was a great visit and I got an nice picture that I will post as soon as I can.
Later in the evening, Denny and I got some good news. Dana's High School had their achievement awards banquet last night. This is when they give the scholarship info for the senior class and other academic awards. They give an award to the student with the highest achievement for the 2009-2010 academic year in the various concentrations of math, science and English. Dana received the award this year for the student having the highest achievement in Honor's Geometry. We are so proud of her! On Monday, Dan had his golf banquet. He received "The most improved player" award. This is his first year of golf and he was a varsity player making it to Districts. We are very proud of Dan!
It is unfortunate that Denny and I had to miss these important events. However, I would just like to say, I am so proud of our kids for excelling in the face of adversity. It was not easy for them to stay the course but they didn't fold up like lawn chairs when trouble hit our family. That is one more victory for the Woodruff 4!
"The difference between winning and losing begins long before the game starts - winner's expect to win, loser's just hope." - Will Rodgers
(One of my all time favorite quotes!)
Love to all,
Deb
Yesterday, we had visitors. Uncle Glen and Aunt Anna came in from Farmington. We met Mike, Anita & Jim on the hill for an early dinner. It was a great visit and I got an nice picture that I will post as soon as I can.
Later in the evening, Denny and I got some good news. Dana's High School had their achievement awards banquet last night. This is when they give the scholarship info for the senior class and other academic awards. They give an award to the student with the highest achievement for the 2009-2010 academic year in the various concentrations of math, science and English. Dana received the award this year for the student having the highest achievement in Honor's Geometry. We are so proud of her! On Monday, Dan had his golf banquet. He received "The most improved player" award. This is his first year of golf and he was a varsity player making it to Districts. We are very proud of Dan!
It is unfortunate that Denny and I had to miss these important events. However, I would just like to say, I am so proud of our kids for excelling in the face of adversity. It was not easy for them to stay the course but they didn't fold up like lawn chairs when trouble hit our family. That is one more victory for the Woodruff 4!
"The difference between winning and losing begins long before the game starts - winner's expect to win, loser's just hope." - Will Rodgers
(One of my all time favorite quotes!)
Love to all,
Deb
Monday, May 24, 2010
As I Dwell on the Past 11 Days......
To all, as I sit here thinking about what to write about, I can't help but have a tear in my eye and smile on my face. The past couple of weeks have been very challenging for me and my family, both physically and spiritually. It is not easy to "let go" sometimes because we feel still have control of what happens in our life. WRONG...nothing could be further from the truth. When things get out of control and we cannot do for ourselves or must depend on others is exactly when we need to ask GOD for help.
With that being said, I have many "thank you's"......
1. Thank you LORD for everything you have given me. Thank you for providing the medical staff at Barnes-Jewish Hospital with the knowledge and ability to make such difficult decisions during my treatment process without compromising my physical being,
2. Thank you Deb (my PMS or Personal Medical Secretary) for all the headaches I've caused you during this time. You have truly been the warrior in this battle and I could not have done it without you. Your idea of the blog was "right on", as usual.
3. Thank you to our caring neighbors (Bill & BJ, Richard & Betty, Beau & Jodee) in Tennessee. Without your welcoming support and help with things around the house (including kids), you have made this endeavor much more bearable.
4. Thank you Sandy (Debbie's mom) for driving down from near Springfield, Mo and taking care of Dana and Daniel while we have been away for these past 11 days. We felt confident you could handle it.....as you have.
5. Thank you all for the prayers. My medical situation is a prime example of the Power of Prayer. Thanks to everyone's thoughts and prayers, we have pulled together and overcome this terrible disease yet one more time.
Thanks again!
Dennis W.
With that being said, I have many "thank you's"......
1. Thank you LORD for everything you have given me. Thank you for providing the medical staff at Barnes-Jewish Hospital with the knowledge and ability to make such difficult decisions during my treatment process without compromising my physical being,
2. Thank you Deb (my PMS or Personal Medical Secretary) for all the headaches I've caused you during this time. You have truly been the warrior in this battle and I could not have done it without you. Your idea of the blog was "right on", as usual.
3. Thank you to our caring neighbors (Bill & BJ, Richard & Betty, Beau & Jodee) in Tennessee. Without your welcoming support and help with things around the house (including kids), you have made this endeavor much more bearable.
4. Thank you Sandy (Debbie's mom) for driving down from near Springfield, Mo and taking care of Dana and Daniel while we have been away for these past 11 days. We felt confident you could handle it.....as you have.
5. Thank you all for the prayers. My medical situation is a prime example of the Power of Prayer. Thanks to everyone's thoughts and prayers, we have pulled together and overcome this terrible disease yet one more time.
Thanks again!
Dennis W.
Turning the Tide
Since Denny's expedition to the farm, he seems like a new person. He hasn't slept so much and seems to have night/day back in the right order. I greatly encouraged by how well he is doing. His incision looks good; no fever and eating well.
Cousin Gene and Helen came by. We had lunch and a nice visit. Looks like the tide is turning...Denny is on his way back to a normal life again.
Love to all,
Deb
Cousin Gene and Helen came by. We had lunch and a nice visit. Looks like the tide is turning...Denny is on his way back to a normal life again.
Love to all,
Deb
Sunday, May 23, 2010
Farm Boy
Denny said he was tired of sleeping so much. (Isn't that an oxymoron?) He said his eyeballs are rolling up in his head from watching TV. Today, he changed his pace. Our friend, Owen, took him for a little ride to the farm. He was able to be outside for awhile in the nice breeze; sitting in the shade in the porch swing overlooking the fields. Our friends, Heidi and Tim, are the caretakers of the farm. They came up to mow so Denny got to power visit with them too. He came back to the lodge with some healthy color and a smile on his face. He will sleep wonderfully tonight.
I took the time for a much-needed break and went for a walk along the river at Frontier Park in St. Charles. Got a bottle of water and my tennis shoes, and off I went. It was good to feel the sun on my face. It was a break that we both needed and truly enjoyed. With the rain, comes the flowers. It was a good day!
Love to all,
Deb
I took the time for a much-needed break and went for a walk along the river at Frontier Park in St. Charles. Got a bottle of water and my tennis shoes, and off I went. It was good to feel the sun on my face. It was a break that we both needed and truly enjoyed. With the rain, comes the flowers. It was a good day!
Love to all,
Deb
Saturday, May 22, 2010
The Coming Week
Wow! Two posts to the blog in one day! I was just thinking about what comes next and thought I'd share.
Denny has follow-up appointments with both doctors on Wednesday. We are hoping that the staples will come out of his incision and we will be cleared to go. If that is the case, we will be out of here by Thursday. We are missing our kids and just want to go home.
Many of you are asking about visiting. Denny is still sleeping alot but I know he would be glad to see you. As previously mentioned, infection is still a concern. Please hold off on visiting if you are sick or have any type of infection. You may want to call my cell to see if we are here before making the drive. Denny seems to be at his best in the early afternoon through early evening. Please do not call the room. If you need my cell number, please email me at
thewoodruff4@yahoo.com. We appreciate your patience and understanding.
Love to all,
Deb
P.S. Hope Lodge is very close to Barnes. Get on Kingshighway as if you are going to the hospital. Stay on Kingshighway until you reach Lindell. Turn right. Go about a mile. Hope Lodge/American Cancer Society is on the left - directly across the street from Walgreens. When you pull into the circle drive, go forward to the parking garage gate. It will let you in. Come inside and register as a visitor. We will have to meet you on the main floor as visitors are not allowed in the rooms.
Denny has follow-up appointments with both doctors on Wednesday. We are hoping that the staples will come out of his incision and we will be cleared to go. If that is the case, we will be out of here by Thursday. We are missing our kids and just want to go home.
Many of you are asking about visiting. Denny is still sleeping alot but I know he would be glad to see you. As previously mentioned, infection is still a concern. Please hold off on visiting if you are sick or have any type of infection. You may want to call my cell to see if we are here before making the drive. Denny seems to be at his best in the early afternoon through early evening. Please do not call the room. If you need my cell number, please email me at
thewoodruff4@yahoo.com. We appreciate your patience and understanding.
Love to all,
Deb
P.S. Hope Lodge is very close to Barnes. Get on Kingshighway as if you are going to the hospital. Stay on Kingshighway until you reach Lindell. Turn right. Go about a mile. Hope Lodge/American Cancer Society is on the left - directly across the street from Walgreens. When you pull into the circle drive, go forward to the parking garage gate. It will let you in. Come inside and register as a visitor. We will have to meet you on the main floor as visitors are not allowed in the rooms.
Sleeping Booty
I was waiting to update the blog when I had something to write about. Denny has been sleeping. Then, he did some more sleeping. He got up and took a shower. It felt so good, he was relaxed and slept some more. I did the laundry and just kept checking on him. Finally, about 12:30 p.m., he got up and I made him some lunch. He ate really well and is happily lounging in front of the big screen watching his beloved Cardinals.
I have some more "Thank you's":
-To Owen & Carol: Thanks for the nice dinner at Zia's. I appreciated the break and the glass of Chardonnay~
-To Everyone who has been sending cards, emails and writing comments. The list is long and lengthy. We have loved each and every one. I'm putting them in an album when we get home.
-To Cousin Pat & Tim: We got the Gourmet Basket today. It was full of wonderful things. Thanks so much for all you have done!
The supervision thing is about to drive us both nuts. We are both looking forward to his Independence Day. As Forrest Gump says, "That's all I have to say about that!" :)
One last thing: Yesterday, I had to call the doctor because he lost his first meal of the day. That was something they were trying to avoid because it puts pressure on the stitches inside his head. When I called, Dr. Chicoine said to just keep an eye on him and look for certain symptoms which would indicate problems. He is still fever free. So far...so good. He held down his dinner last night and so far lunch today. I don't know...I'm just spit-balling here, but I bet he goes back to sleep soon! I wonder if a kiss will wake him up? With my luck, I would be the one to turn into a frog!
Love to all,
Deb
I have some more "Thank you's":
-To Owen & Carol: Thanks for the nice dinner at Zia's. I appreciated the break and the glass of Chardonnay~
-To Everyone who has been sending cards, emails and writing comments. The list is long and lengthy. We have loved each and every one. I'm putting them in an album when we get home.
-To Cousin Pat & Tim: We got the Gourmet Basket today. It was full of wonderful things. Thanks so much for all you have done!
The supervision thing is about to drive us both nuts. We are both looking forward to his Independence Day. As Forrest Gump says, "That's all I have to say about that!" :)
One last thing: Yesterday, I had to call the doctor because he lost his first meal of the day. That was something they were trying to avoid because it puts pressure on the stitches inside his head. When I called, Dr. Chicoine said to just keep an eye on him and look for certain symptoms which would indicate problems. He is still fever free. So far...so good. He held down his dinner last night and so far lunch today. I don't know...I'm just spit-balling here, but I bet he goes back to sleep soon! I wonder if a kiss will wake him up? With my luck, I would be the one to turn into a frog!
Love to all,
Deb
Friday, May 21, 2010
"Mr. Haney"
Does anyone remember that show "Green Acres"? Mr. Haney was that wheeler-dealer junk man that drove Oliver crazy. "Mr. Haney" is a nickname I gave Denny. Here we are barely one day out of the hospital, and he is making a deal.
He was down in the common room watching the big screen TV and a lady walked in. She was talking about getting rid of her old golf clubs. Like a gopher, his head popped up and he said, "What brand of clubs are they?" She said, "I don't know but they're yours if you want them." We now have a new set of golf clubs. Green acres is the place to be......
He was down in the common room watching the big screen TV and a lady walked in. She was talking about getting rid of her old golf clubs. Like a gopher, his head popped up and he said, "What brand of clubs are they?" She said, "I don't know but they're yours if you want them." We now have a new set of golf clubs. Green acres is the place to be......
What will happen next?
Good morning, everyone! Things were chaotic yesterday. Finally, Finally...we got back to the lodge. He got in bed and that was it for the night. He was really tired. I couldn't even get him up to eat. It didn't worry me, though, because he ate his lunch at 2:30 p.m. I figured sleep was what he needed. This morning finds him still sleeping comfortably and fever free.
I was looking forward to a calmer day when I saw notices put up that the lodge was shutting off the hot water today. "Okay", I thought, "We can live without hot water for awhile". But NO! They have shut off ALL the water! Hmmmmnnn...I wonder what will happen next?
Love to all,
Deb
I was looking forward to a calmer day when I saw notices put up that the lodge was shutting off the hot water today. "Okay", I thought, "We can live without hot water for awhile". But NO! They have shut off ALL the water! Hmmmmnnn...I wonder what will happen next?
Love to all,
Deb
Thursday, May 20, 2010
We're Outta Here!
I'm running around getting Denny's prescriptions and junk together so we can leave. The doctor's discharge instructions were 24 hour supervision for about 3-4 weeks until the swelling has subsided and no driving for at least a month until the next evaluation. I asked, "Does that include tractors, lawnmowers, and 4 wheelers?" Dr. Chicoine laughed and said, "Absolutely!"
I spent the first half of the day getting food and supplies. I also got the room cleaned and ready for him. I suspect he will be exhausted by the time the day is over.
We are out of the valley and headed for the mountain top! Go, Denny!
I spent the first half of the day getting food and supplies. I also got the room cleaned and ready for him. I suspect he will be exhausted by the time the day is over.
We are out of the valley and headed for the mountain top! Go, Denny!
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Discharge - Change in Plans
Dr. Chicoine said he was thinking of discharging Denny tomorrow. Therefore, we are just going to wait to have visitors. Denny is going to be going through alot tomorrow getting moved. Let's hold off awhile longer on the visitation. Thanks for your cooperation and understanding!
It's all good!
3:30 p.m. Denny is getting stronger and stronger. We have had an actual conversation today. I am amazed at the things he is remembering. Dr. Chicoine said he wouldn't remember being here but I'm beginning to wonder. Denny's memory is pretty sharp for someone who has undergone such extensive surgery. He is just an awesome fighter! I forgot to mention in my previous post that the feeding tube was out by 9:30 a.m. He has been much more comfortable pain-wise today. He is off the major stuff and on a lower dose of pain meds now. He said by tomorrow he will be ready for visitors. Visiting hours are from 11 a.m. to 9 p.m. Because infection is still a major concern, if you are sick or have any kind of infection, we ask that you refrain from visiting until it is cleared. (There is a antibacterial foam outside of his doors to put on your hands before entering his room.) Also, in order for him to get the rest he needs, we ask that the visits be kept to about 15 minutes. We know how much you care for Denny and have his best interests in mind. We appreciate your patience and understanding. Your "team" support has made all the difference. Thank you!
P.S. To friend, Harvey, thanks for the lovely comment. It shows what a big heart you have!
11:45 a.m. Physical and Occupational Therapies both returned to test Denny after I posted this morning. Both feel that unless something drastically changes, Denny will not need therapy upon discharge from the hospital. (No date has been set for discharge yet.) The special sunglasses I requested (called "cocoons") worked wonderfully for Denny. The bright lights in the hallway were too much for his eyes so these did the trick. Thanks, Alan! The sitter has been removed from his room. He seems almost back to normal; still a subtle difference but nothing major. When I left to do this post, he was sleeping. He took a pain pill as opposed to getting the medication through an IV. It has been a busy day in Room 10574. This is progress. He is still not up to visitors. Sleep and food are necessary right now. It's all still good!
8:30 a.m. Wow! What a difference a day makes! I got here this morning and Denny was sitting up in bed eating breakfast. I mean sitting up on the side of the bed with his feet on the floor; like he was pulled up to a table. Occupational therapy had been in working with him. The feeding tube is still in so I'm putting the pressure on to get that thing out. It is making his throat sore.
He really seems like himself. The sitter is still there but I have a feeling they will be stopping that soon. The change in him is subtle now; not as obvious as it was yesterday. That must mean the swelling is going down a little. Dr. Chicoine had a CAT scan done on him when they pulled the lumbar drain to make sure everything was okay. The CAT just showed the swelling; nothing else. It's all good!
I knew today was going to be better. When I woke up, the sun was shining. When I got to the hospital, I got a great parking place. When I walked in, a nice old gentleman said to me, "God's Blessings to you!" Yes, it's all good!
Love to all,
Deb
P.S. To friend, Harvey, thanks for the lovely comment. It shows what a big heart you have!
11:45 a.m. Physical and Occupational Therapies both returned to test Denny after I posted this morning. Both feel that unless something drastically changes, Denny will not need therapy upon discharge from the hospital. (No date has been set for discharge yet.) The special sunglasses I requested (called "cocoons") worked wonderfully for Denny. The bright lights in the hallway were too much for his eyes so these did the trick. Thanks, Alan! The sitter has been removed from his room. He seems almost back to normal; still a subtle difference but nothing major. When I left to do this post, he was sleeping. He took a pain pill as opposed to getting the medication through an IV. It has been a busy day in Room 10574. This is progress. He is still not up to visitors. Sleep and food are necessary right now. It's all still good!
8:30 a.m. Wow! What a difference a day makes! I got here this morning and Denny was sitting up in bed eating breakfast. I mean sitting up on the side of the bed with his feet on the floor; like he was pulled up to a table. Occupational therapy had been in working with him. The feeding tube is still in so I'm putting the pressure on to get that thing out. It is making his throat sore.
He really seems like himself. The sitter is still there but I have a feeling they will be stopping that soon. The change in him is subtle now; not as obvious as it was yesterday. That must mean the swelling is going down a little. Dr. Chicoine had a CAT scan done on him when they pulled the lumbar drain to make sure everything was okay. The CAT just showed the swelling; nothing else. It's all good!
I knew today was going to be better. When I woke up, the sun was shining. When I got to the hospital, I got a great parking place. When I walked in, a nice old gentleman said to me, "God's Blessings to you!" Yes, it's all good!
Love to all,
Deb
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
Heart Notes
8:30 p.m. I just got back to the room. When I left, Denny was sleeping comfortably after eating a full meal. His temperature was down to normal. The doctor came by and checked him. He said he was greatly encouraged by Denny's progress considering the magnitude of the surgery. There was a sitter in the room with him. She will be there all night.
Several of you are asking where to send cards for Denny. The best place is at the Lodge. Here is the address:
Denny Woodruff
c/o Hope Lodge
4215 Lindell Blvd.
Room 303
St. Louis, MO 63108
The day ended well. I think now that he is eating, tomorrow will be better!
1 p.m. Denny finally ate something. He ate a very good lunch along with one of those Ensure shakes. He was kind of crabby when I kept encouraging him to eat. He "scrinched" his face up, shook his head and said, "Who did I marry?" I laughed to myself, "I don't know. The Queen of England? The lottery winner? A wife that cares about you?" We should start seeing some good results now that he is starting to eat again. Now, his body will have something to fight with. His temp is at 102 but I'll keep after him to breathe. It can only get better from here!
As a side note: I had to laugh. Margo, the sitter, was watching TV with her earphones in so the noise wouldn't disturb him. (Bless her heart, how boring a job is it to sit in a dark room making sure somebody doesn't jump out of his bed?) Denny said to me while shaking his head, "Look at her over there, playing video games!" Real Denny would have been asking why she was there. What a hoot!
I will try to post again this afternoon before the computer center closes down at 5pm.
9:00 a.m. Last night was a revelation. The doctors told us that Denny may experience short term memory and judgement problems in the week after surgery. They said he might not know me immediately either. Fortunately, he knows me and is not experiencing memory problems. However, last night I was able to see that his judgement has been affected. The only way I can describe this is: the lights are on and somebody is home...just not the somebody I know. His brain is swelling from the trauma and he is saying & doing things that are not typical for the Denny we know. He tried to get out of bed last night and pulled out some of his lines. As a result, he is now in a bed that goes all the way down to the floor with mats all around it. He has a full time "sitter". Someone has to be in the room at all times with him until this swelling passes. He becomes very angry and agitated at me when I try to ask him to "eat one more bite" or "take another deep breath" so he says things that the real Denny would not say. Dr. Chicoine says this is very normal due to the trauma to his brain. The patient becomes agitated when they see a familiar face and vent their frustrations. Dr. Chicoine said Denny will not remember any of this and it will go away.
I left the hospital last night feeling really ragged. Between Denny's issues and an altercation with another family member, I was not in top form. I called another "team member" whose opinion I respect and got some support. Then I just went back to the room and went to bed.
This morning the nurse's report was very promising. Denny's system is now working. They removed 2 of the 3 tubes in his nose. They left the stomach tube in because he is not eating well. However, he did eat more at breakfast than I've seen him eat in the past 2 days. That is good. All his vitals are good. Temperature is at 99.2. Pain is under control.
As far as things with me... With some good rest and a little distance to get perspective, I have decided how I'm going to handle this. I'm viewing Cancer as a person. He is smirking at us and taunting us with the situation we are now in. One half of the Denny & Deb duo is temporarily down, but the other half is still fighting. I am angry at this hideous disease and I will continue to keep fighting for him. Denny's head may not hear and understand me but his heart does. We are going to beat this thing yet! Keep the prayers coming. Have faith that this is all going to work out. You can't get to the top of the mountain without first going through the valley.
Love to all,
Deb
Several of you are asking where to send cards for Denny. The best place is at the Lodge. Here is the address:
Denny Woodruff
c/o Hope Lodge
4215 Lindell Blvd.
Room 303
St. Louis, MO 63108
The day ended well. I think now that he is eating, tomorrow will be better!
1 p.m. Denny finally ate something. He ate a very good lunch along with one of those Ensure shakes. He was kind of crabby when I kept encouraging him to eat. He "scrinched" his face up, shook his head and said, "Who did I marry?" I laughed to myself, "I don't know. The Queen of England? The lottery winner? A wife that cares about you?" We should start seeing some good results now that he is starting to eat again. Now, his body will have something to fight with. His temp is at 102 but I'll keep after him to breathe. It can only get better from here!
As a side note: I had to laugh. Margo, the sitter, was watching TV with her earphones in so the noise wouldn't disturb him. (Bless her heart, how boring a job is it to sit in a dark room making sure somebody doesn't jump out of his bed?) Denny said to me while shaking his head, "Look at her over there, playing video games!" Real Denny would have been asking why she was there. What a hoot!
I will try to post again this afternoon before the computer center closes down at 5pm.
9:00 a.m. Last night was a revelation. The doctors told us that Denny may experience short term memory and judgement problems in the week after surgery. They said he might not know me immediately either. Fortunately, he knows me and is not experiencing memory problems. However, last night I was able to see that his judgement has been affected. The only way I can describe this is: the lights are on and somebody is home...just not the somebody I know. His brain is swelling from the trauma and he is saying & doing things that are not typical for the Denny we know. He tried to get out of bed last night and pulled out some of his lines. As a result, he is now in a bed that goes all the way down to the floor with mats all around it. He has a full time "sitter". Someone has to be in the room at all times with him until this swelling passes. He becomes very angry and agitated at me when I try to ask him to "eat one more bite" or "take another deep breath" so he says things that the real Denny would not say. Dr. Chicoine says this is very normal due to the trauma to his brain. The patient becomes agitated when they see a familiar face and vent their frustrations. Dr. Chicoine said Denny will not remember any of this and it will go away.
I left the hospital last night feeling really ragged. Between Denny's issues and an altercation with another family member, I was not in top form. I called another "team member" whose opinion I respect and got some support. Then I just went back to the room and went to bed.
This morning the nurse's report was very promising. Denny's system is now working. They removed 2 of the 3 tubes in his nose. They left the stomach tube in because he is not eating well. However, he did eat more at breakfast than I've seen him eat in the past 2 days. That is good. All his vitals are good. Temperature is at 99.2. Pain is under control.
As far as things with me... With some good rest and a little distance to get perspective, I have decided how I'm going to handle this. I'm viewing Cancer as a person. He is smirking at us and taunting us with the situation we are now in. One half of the Denny & Deb duo is temporarily down, but the other half is still fighting. I am angry at this hideous disease and I will continue to keep fighting for him. Denny's head may not hear and understand me but his heart does. We are going to beat this thing yet! Keep the prayers coming. Have faith that this is all going to work out. You can't get to the top of the mountain without first going through the valley.
Love to all,
Deb
Monday, May 17, 2010
Seeing Red
4:50 p.m. FINAL ENTRY: Today has been much better. Denny has been sleeping comfortably all day. I am greatly encouraged by his progress. I wanted everyone to know, I spoke with the Head of the nursing staff about the night nurse situation. She will not be working on Denny anymore during his stay. Huge relief for me!
I just had a few "Thank you's" to share:
To Aunt Pat and Aunt Sharon -Thanks so much for the bags of goodies. I've enjoyed the Country Living magazine. I had the strawberries for breakfast. Love you, Twinks!
To Cousin Alan (the eye doctor, for those of you who don't know him) - Thanks for express mailing those special sunglasses I asked for. Denny will love you for it. The lights are bright in the hallway. Now, we will be prepared for it and he can practice walking more often!
To Brother Jimmy: Thanks for having your friend, Gary (a respiratory therapist), come by and check on Denny. He told Denny to keep taking those deep breaths. Denny had a bit of a fever today but I reminded him about the breathing. Denny and I are a team so we are working together get him feeling better. The fever is back down now. Thanks for caring!
To all of our wonderful family and friends: Thanks for the emails, comments, cards, and prayers. This helps get us through the rough patches. Thanks to the Corps of Engineers for sending flowers and balloons. Denny appreciated them very much.
To Johnny, Denny's boss: Thanks for the wonderful note. He smiled when I read it to him. It is nice to know the Nashville Corp's are out there!
To my mom: Thanks for stepping in and taking charge of everything at home. Can't tell you how much we appreciate you!
11:05 a.m.- Denny was much better this morning. He was sitting up in bed; trying to eat some scrambled eggs. He got a shot of morphine right after I got there. They had to give him something for nausea. Now that his system is starting to work, he is experiencing nausea whenever something goes into his stomach. Today, he will also get the feeding tube taken out of his nose. That is one less aggravation for him. I think today is going to be a good day for him. Cross your fingers!
8:20 a.m. Seeing Red..yes, I'm a cardinal's fan but that is not what I'm talking about. I was seeing red when I got to the hospital and saw Denny's condition yesterday morning. He was all tangled up in his IV lines. He was laying on his side; which the doctors do not want him to do and his oxygen mask was off. When he opened his eyes and saw me, he said, "Oh good, you're here." His face was a picture of misery. That night nurse had not given him any morphine during the night. He was in so much pain. I asked her why she didn't give him any pain meds. She said, "I asked him how he was doing and he said, fine". I have the words to describe what I felt at that moment. However, I don't think they would be appropriate for the blog!
Within 15 minutes, he had morphine. Within 1 hour, his bed was straightened up; IV lines untangled, and he was laying on his back with the oxygen mask on. He was so comfortable, he was snoring.
The excellent nurse from the day before was on yesterday too. She was not happy with the condition we found him in. Yesterday was spent getting him comfortable with alot of rest. I was going to stay with him last night but by 10pm, he seemed very rested and somewhat alert. He had actually gotten out of bed and sat in a chair for little while. He had talked to Dan and Dana on the phone. He and I had a discussion about when the night nurse asks him how he is feeling, he is not to say, "fine" but to give her a pain level and ask for medication.
I probably should have stayed but the day had worn me down. It takes alot of energy to be the "Pitbull in Lipstick." I know I have to take care of myself in order to take care of him. So, I made sure he had pain medicine before I left at 10pm. The night nurse only had to give him 1, maybe 2 doses of pain meds before I get back this morning.
I'm just about ready to leave. I will post again tonight if it is not too late. I had better find him in an excellent condition when I get there or I will become like sandpaper in somebody's rear-end until things get corrected! There will probably be "NOT WANTED" posters with my picture on them before we get out of there! :)
Denny is still not up to visitors. He is sleeping continually. Please know that we appreciate your patience and understanding.
Here's to hoping for a better day....
Love to all,
Deb
I just had a few "Thank you's" to share:
To Aunt Pat and Aunt Sharon -Thanks so much for the bags of goodies. I've enjoyed the Country Living magazine. I had the strawberries for breakfast. Love you, Twinks!
To Cousin Alan (the eye doctor, for those of you who don't know him) - Thanks for express mailing those special sunglasses I asked for. Denny will love you for it. The lights are bright in the hallway. Now, we will be prepared for it and he can practice walking more often!
To Brother Jimmy: Thanks for having your friend, Gary (a respiratory therapist), come by and check on Denny. He told Denny to keep taking those deep breaths. Denny had a bit of a fever today but I reminded him about the breathing. Denny and I are a team so we are working together get him feeling better. The fever is back down now. Thanks for caring!
To all of our wonderful family and friends: Thanks for the emails, comments, cards, and prayers. This helps get us through the rough patches. Thanks to the Corps of Engineers for sending flowers and balloons. Denny appreciated them very much.
To Johnny, Denny's boss: Thanks for the wonderful note. He smiled when I read it to him. It is nice to know the Nashville Corp's are out there!
To my mom: Thanks for stepping in and taking charge of everything at home. Can't tell you how much we appreciate you!
11:05 a.m.- Denny was much better this morning. He was sitting up in bed; trying to eat some scrambled eggs. He got a shot of morphine right after I got there. They had to give him something for nausea. Now that his system is starting to work, he is experiencing nausea whenever something goes into his stomach. Today, he will also get the feeding tube taken out of his nose. That is one less aggravation for him. I think today is going to be a good day for him. Cross your fingers!
8:20 a.m. Seeing Red..yes, I'm a cardinal's fan but that is not what I'm talking about. I was seeing red when I got to the hospital and saw Denny's condition yesterday morning. He was all tangled up in his IV lines. He was laying on his side; which the doctors do not want him to do and his oxygen mask was off. When he opened his eyes and saw me, he said, "Oh good, you're here." His face was a picture of misery. That night nurse had not given him any morphine during the night. He was in so much pain. I asked her why she didn't give him any pain meds. She said, "I asked him how he was doing and he said, fine". I have the words to describe what I felt at that moment. However, I don't think they would be appropriate for the blog!
Within 15 minutes, he had morphine. Within 1 hour, his bed was straightened up; IV lines untangled, and he was laying on his back with the oxygen mask on. He was so comfortable, he was snoring.
The excellent nurse from the day before was on yesterday too. She was not happy with the condition we found him in. Yesterday was spent getting him comfortable with alot of rest. I was going to stay with him last night but by 10pm, he seemed very rested and somewhat alert. He had actually gotten out of bed and sat in a chair for little while. He had talked to Dan and Dana on the phone. He and I had a discussion about when the night nurse asks him how he is feeling, he is not to say, "fine" but to give her a pain level and ask for medication.
I probably should have stayed but the day had worn me down. It takes alot of energy to be the "Pitbull in Lipstick." I know I have to take care of myself in order to take care of him. So, I made sure he had pain medicine before I left at 10pm. The night nurse only had to give him 1, maybe 2 doses of pain meds before I get back this morning.
I'm just about ready to leave. I will post again tonight if it is not too late. I had better find him in an excellent condition when I get there or I will become like sandpaper in somebody's rear-end until things get corrected! There will probably be "NOT WANTED" posters with my picture on them before we get out of there! :)
Denny is still not up to visitors. He is sleeping continually. Please know that we appreciate your patience and understanding.
Here's to hoping for a better day....
Love to all,
Deb
Sunday, May 16, 2010
Iron Man
My friend, Kathy, called it right. Denny is Iron Man. To go through what he has and still look so good, tells you what he is made of. I called at 2:25 a.m. to see how he was handling the decrease in pain meds. His nurse said he was comfortable and seemed to be sleeping well. I'm getting ready to head into the hospital now. Visiting hours are from 11am to 9pm. However, since I'm his spouse, they will let me in anytime. Denny is still not ready for visitors. We'll let you know the moment he is. Thank you for understanding!
Today is Dan's Confirmation Day at church. Denny and I are so sad we have to miss it. I know Dan understands and he knows we are with him in spirit. However, as his mother, it is hard to want to be two places at one time. It reminds of a line from the movie, "Sweet Home Alabama". It sums up this situation perfectly. "You can't ride two horses with one ass".
I'll post tonight when I get back to the room. Hope everyone has a wonderful day and don't forget to count your blessings!
Love to all,
Deb
Today is Dan's Confirmation Day at church. Denny and I are so sad we have to miss it. I know Dan understands and he knows we are with him in spirit. However, as his mother, it is hard to want to be two places at one time. It reminds of a line from the movie, "Sweet Home Alabama". It sums up this situation perfectly. "You can't ride two horses with one ass".
I'll post tonight when I get back to the room. Hope everyone has a wonderful day and don't forget to count your blessings!
Love to all,
Deb
Saturday, May 15, 2010
25 hours in a day
8:35 a.m. Denny was moved out of intensive care last night about 6 p.m. It was a long and drawn out process. Without boring you with details, he finally got the private room I wanted at 11 p.m. I'll post later in the day with more details. I'm heading over to the hospital in a little while. Denny is still not taking visitors. His fever is down. The man is amazing. He is awesomely strong! Just sit tight and I'll get back to this blog in an hour or so.
8:30 p.m. Okay, so I lied. It has been more than a few hours. The guest services area at the hospital has the computer that I update on. It is closed on Saturday and Sunday. Denny's new room number is 10574. (Please do not call the room because he cannot get to the phone and noise makes him crazy!)
When I got to the hospital this morning, they had already tube-fed him. It made him nauseous so they had to give him some anti-nausea meds. This is becoming a concern because he has only had that one feeding all day. His stomach is just not working yet. The pain meds have been known to slow the stomach action down. The docs are trying to find that happy medium between pain control and starting his digestive system.
They took the bandage off of his head. Considering everything they had to do to get inside of his head, he looked pretty good. He's kind of got this Henry the Eighth look going on. Hey, it's good to be the king!
His pain was under control this morning and he was sleeping. The nurse said he did pretty well through the night. Today was MUCH BETTER! We had an excellent nurse. We hardly had to call for anything because she was there when he needed it. The private room is a necessity. Denny is so hypersensitive to noise and light, that he gets really agitated when beepers or phones go off. The lights are off and the shades are drawn. It is dark and cool so he is sleeping well.
Thanks to the Woodruff/Theodorakas/Jones entourage that visited today. You guys made the day pass quickly for me!
Denny is still not ready for visitors. His head cannot be elevated above 30 degrees or he gets dizzy and light headed. Right now, he just needs to sleep.
I was very happy about how the day went. Denny is stronger today than he was yesterday. I can already see a difference since this morning. I can't wait to see what good things tomorrow will bring!
"It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; What is essential is invisible to the eye." - Antoine de-Saint Exupery
Love to all,
Deb
8:30 p.m. Okay, so I lied. It has been more than a few hours. The guest services area at the hospital has the computer that I update on. It is closed on Saturday and Sunday. Denny's new room number is 10574. (Please do not call the room because he cannot get to the phone and noise makes him crazy!)
When I got to the hospital this morning, they had already tube-fed him. It made him nauseous so they had to give him some anti-nausea meds. This is becoming a concern because he has only had that one feeding all day. His stomach is just not working yet. The pain meds have been known to slow the stomach action down. The docs are trying to find that happy medium between pain control and starting his digestive system.
They took the bandage off of his head. Considering everything they had to do to get inside of his head, he looked pretty good. He's kind of got this Henry the Eighth look going on. Hey, it's good to be the king!
His pain was under control this morning and he was sleeping. The nurse said he did pretty well through the night. Today was MUCH BETTER! We had an excellent nurse. We hardly had to call for anything because she was there when he needed it. The private room is a necessity. Denny is so hypersensitive to noise and light, that he gets really agitated when beepers or phones go off. The lights are off and the shades are drawn. It is dark and cool so he is sleeping well.
Thanks to the Woodruff/Theodorakas/Jones entourage that visited today. You guys made the day pass quickly for me!
Denny is still not ready for visitors. His head cannot be elevated above 30 degrees or he gets dizzy and light headed. Right now, he just needs to sleep.
I was very happy about how the day went. Denny is stronger today than he was yesterday. I can already see a difference since this morning. I can't wait to see what good things tomorrow will bring!
"It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; What is essential is invisible to the eye." - Antoine de-Saint Exupery
Love to all,
Deb
Friday, May 14, 2010
It's a Beautiful Day!
3:45 p.m. FINAL ENTRY: I just spoke with my brother-in-law, Jimmy. He is a respiratory therapist. He said the mild fever is very common and if Denny starts taking deeper breaths then it will go away. I will make sure Denny takes deeper breaths. I checked in on Denny before I left to update the blog. He was sleeping like a baby. All signs were normal. So now, I'm going to take a deep breath and relax a little while he dreams for both of us. This will probably be the last post of the day. My access to computers at the hospital shuts off at 5pm. If I can, I'll post when I get back to the lodge. Otherwise, look for me again at 9 a.m. tomorrow. I'll go visit Denny, get the latest info, and update y'all as soon as I can.
Love to all,
Deb
2:40 p.m. My last trip in was about 2 p.m. Denny's lip is better. I need to clarify my previous entry. They did not stop all antibiotics. Just the one that they suspected was causing the problem. They substituted another one in it's place. The nurse and I have come to a more agreeable understanding. She is being nicer and more cooperative as a result.
She gave Denny more painkiller and nexium to control stomach acid. My worry at this time, is that he has developed a small fever. She says it is because he is not breathing deeply enough. I've put a call into my brother-in-law who is respiratory therapist to see what he says about that. I'm waiting for his call. Also, Denny's magnesium level has dropped lower than they want so they are giving him magnesium through his IV. When I left, he was sleeping comfortably. Sweet Dreams, Denny, your team is watching out for you!
12:45 p.m. I was thinking about Denny's swollen lip. After the nurse mentioned that it could be an allergic reaction, I asked her to talk to the doctor about the antibiotics. Denny does have an allergy to one antibiotic which they have on file. I brought this to her attention. She, in turn, talked to the doctor. It appears one of the antibiotics that they had to give Denny is a crossover from the one he is allergic to. They gave it to him thinking the benefit would outweigh the risk. We are not 100% sure this is the case. They have stopped the antibiotic for now to see if the swelling goes down.
I'm not real thrilled with the nurse working on Denny right now. I can only stay with him for a few minutes but everytime I've gone in, he is saying his pain level is at a 6 or 7. When I go find the nurse, she always gives him more pain medicine. Another time, he was trying to pull a tube out of his nose that is sutured in. I stopped him and called the nurse for more pain meds. He was trying to pull it out because it was hurting. She appears distracted by the other patient she is responsible for. She had better consider me the pitbull in lipstick because I'm watching out for our guy! :) The night nurse is much better. She is not so distracted and is very good at keeping on top of Denny's pain. I'll be with him until she gets here tonight.
9:00 a.m.-The ICU is not open between 6 - 8 am. I got back to the hospital about 8:05 a.m. this morning to see Denny. He looked so good! His color is great and he seemed comfortable; not in any pain. They are giving him oxycodone and morphine. When I touched his arm, he opened his eyes and smiled at me. Then he started to lift his left hand. (The nurses said that hand had to lay flat because it was monitoring his pulse.) I said, "You need to keep your hand down, sweetie." He said, "Don't tell me what to do." Ha! He's baaaaaccck!
Dr. Chicoine had already been in to see him before I got there. However, Dr. Chicoine spoke with Anita and me last night about 8:30 p.m. He said eveything was good. The surgery went better than expected. However, it appeared that the cancer had spread a little bit more towards the front of his head than it appeared on the MRI. They addressed that area and feel confident that they got it all out.
I did notice that Denny's lower lip is extremely swollen. That is quite a new look for him. HA! I asked the nurse what had caused that. She said it could be from the tape. She said she would check with the doctor to make sure it isn't an allergic reaction to something they are giving him. He also hasn't had anything to eat or drink. She said it may be this evening before they start him on ice chips. Because he has to lie flat, they do not want to start food too soon. Among other medical reasons, vomiting could result and this would definitely be a problem for Denny.
In my opinion, Denny has done better than expected. I think of all the things they said would or could happen, Denny has experienced only about half so far. In my book, that is a good thing. Now, we keep watch for brain swelling and infection. He is strong and he is fighting, so we march on. You can do it, Denny!
Love to all,
Deb
Love to all,
Deb
2:40 p.m. My last trip in was about 2 p.m. Denny's lip is better. I need to clarify my previous entry. They did not stop all antibiotics. Just the one that they suspected was causing the problem. They substituted another one in it's place. The nurse and I have come to a more agreeable understanding. She is being nicer and more cooperative as a result.
She gave Denny more painkiller and nexium to control stomach acid. My worry at this time, is that he has developed a small fever. She says it is because he is not breathing deeply enough. I've put a call into my brother-in-law who is respiratory therapist to see what he says about that. I'm waiting for his call. Also, Denny's magnesium level has dropped lower than they want so they are giving him magnesium through his IV. When I left, he was sleeping comfortably. Sweet Dreams, Denny, your team is watching out for you!
12:45 p.m. I was thinking about Denny's swollen lip. After the nurse mentioned that it could be an allergic reaction, I asked her to talk to the doctor about the antibiotics. Denny does have an allergy to one antibiotic which they have on file. I brought this to her attention. She, in turn, talked to the doctor. It appears one of the antibiotics that they had to give Denny is a crossover from the one he is allergic to. They gave it to him thinking the benefit would outweigh the risk. We are not 100% sure this is the case. They have stopped the antibiotic for now to see if the swelling goes down.
I'm not real thrilled with the nurse working on Denny right now. I can only stay with him for a few minutes but everytime I've gone in, he is saying his pain level is at a 6 or 7. When I go find the nurse, she always gives him more pain medicine. Another time, he was trying to pull a tube out of his nose that is sutured in. I stopped him and called the nurse for more pain meds. He was trying to pull it out because it was hurting. She appears distracted by the other patient she is responsible for. She had better consider me the pitbull in lipstick because I'm watching out for our guy! :) The night nurse is much better. She is not so distracted and is very good at keeping on top of Denny's pain. I'll be with him until she gets here tonight.
9:00 a.m.-The ICU is not open between 6 - 8 am. I got back to the hospital about 8:05 a.m. this morning to see Denny. He looked so good! His color is great and he seemed comfortable; not in any pain. They are giving him oxycodone and morphine. When I touched his arm, he opened his eyes and smiled at me. Then he started to lift his left hand. (The nurses said that hand had to lay flat because it was monitoring his pulse.) I said, "You need to keep your hand down, sweetie." He said, "Don't tell me what to do." Ha! He's baaaaaccck!
Dr. Chicoine had already been in to see him before I got there. However, Dr. Chicoine spoke with Anita and me last night about 8:30 p.m. He said eveything was good. The surgery went better than expected. However, it appeared that the cancer had spread a little bit more towards the front of his head than it appeared on the MRI. They addressed that area and feel confident that they got it all out.
I did notice that Denny's lower lip is extremely swollen. That is quite a new look for him. HA! I asked the nurse what had caused that. She said it could be from the tape. She said she would check with the doctor to make sure it isn't an allergic reaction to something they are giving him. He also hasn't had anything to eat or drink. She said it may be this evening before they start him on ice chips. Because he has to lie flat, they do not want to start food too soon. Among other medical reasons, vomiting could result and this would definitely be a problem for Denny.
In my opinion, Denny has done better than expected. I think of all the things they said would or could happen, Denny has experienced only about half so far. In my book, that is a good thing. Now, we keep watch for brain swelling and infection. He is strong and he is fighting, so we march on. You can do it, Denny!
Love to all,
Deb
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Surgery Day
5:40 p.m. FINAL ENTRY - Dr. Haughey just called. He said Denny's surgery is done. He is getting ready to go into recovery. Dr. Haughey believes that they were able to get all of the cancer. They did not have to remove some of the tissue behind his left eye as originally planned. Denny came through with flying colors. The next few days will find him in intensive care. We are requesting that there be no visitors at this time. I will let you know via this blog when he is ready to greet you. Many thanks to all who came and waited with me, as well, as those of you who kept him in your thoughts and prayers. Miracles are still happening! Thanks for keeping the faith. Go Team Woodruff!
3:20 p.m. The surgical nurse just called and said they are coming down the homestretch. Doctors are starting to close everything up. This will take awhile but the next phone call I receive will be from the doctor. Denny's vital signs are looking good. As my dad would say, "He's winning!" Go, Denny!
1:40 p.m. The ENT is still bringing the tumor out through Denny's nose. He hasn't had to make a facial incision so far. He told us he would try to minimize the scarring but if he had to go through the front of Denny's face, then it would be necessary. Denny is still holding his own. From here on out it will be the intricate process of locating the cancerous cells in the tumor area and the surrounding margins. So far...so good.
11:50 a.m. The neurosurgeon has made his incision going in through the top of Denny's head. The ENT just started his exploration up through Denny's nose. Both are evaluating the next steps. He is in good hands. Feel confident that these doctor's know what to do. All vital signs are being carefully monitored. Deepest thanks to Pastor Garry for the comforting words to Denny before surgery. Words cannot express our appreciation. Thanks, also, for Cousin Shelly's blog comment. We appreciate your prayers! Harvey, if you are reading this, Denny really appreciated your "chin held high" comment. You helped prepare him for battle. Many thanks for that, dear friend!
9:45 a.m. Denny's surgical nurse called. The lumbar drain was put in but they were unable to get the chest catheter (also called a central line) in. His veins were too constricted. They added several IV's instead of just the one big one. His heart rate and other vitals are doing fine.
8 a.m. Denny went into surgery. The doctor said it will take between 12 to 14 hours. They have decided to put in a chest catheter and a lumbar drain. This will add about 2 hours to the original plan. Denny has the A-team working on him. The doctors are world reknown and so are their staff. Updates should be coming every 2-3 hours. Stay tuned.
Good Morning! Hope everyone slept well because today is going to be a long one. Denny and I are getting ready to leave for the hospital. I will update the blog when I get new info.
Love to all,
Deb
3:20 p.m. The surgical nurse just called and said they are coming down the homestretch. Doctors are starting to close everything up. This will take awhile but the next phone call I receive will be from the doctor. Denny's vital signs are looking good. As my dad would say, "He's winning!" Go, Denny!
1:40 p.m. The ENT is still bringing the tumor out through Denny's nose. He hasn't had to make a facial incision so far. He told us he would try to minimize the scarring but if he had to go through the front of Denny's face, then it would be necessary. Denny is still holding his own. From here on out it will be the intricate process of locating the cancerous cells in the tumor area and the surrounding margins. So far...so good.
11:50 a.m. The neurosurgeon has made his incision going in through the top of Denny's head. The ENT just started his exploration up through Denny's nose. Both are evaluating the next steps. He is in good hands. Feel confident that these doctor's know what to do. All vital signs are being carefully monitored. Deepest thanks to Pastor Garry for the comforting words to Denny before surgery. Words cannot express our appreciation. Thanks, also, for Cousin Shelly's blog comment. We appreciate your prayers! Harvey, if you are reading this, Denny really appreciated your "chin held high" comment. You helped prepare him for battle. Many thanks for that, dear friend!
9:45 a.m. Denny's surgical nurse called. The lumbar drain was put in but they were unable to get the chest catheter (also called a central line) in. His veins were too constricted. They added several IV's instead of just the one big one. His heart rate and other vitals are doing fine.
8 a.m. Denny went into surgery. The doctor said it will take between 12 to 14 hours. They have decided to put in a chest catheter and a lumbar drain. This will add about 2 hours to the original plan. Denny has the A-team working on him. The doctors are world reknown and so are their staff. Updates should be coming every 2-3 hours. Stay tuned.
Good Morning! Hope everyone slept well because today is going to be a long one. Denny and I are getting ready to leave for the hospital. I will update the blog when I get new info.
Love to all,
Deb
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Bring it on!
The last of the packing is almost done. The bills are paid. The kids are off to school. Denny is ready to get this ball rolling.
We are amazed by the outpouring of love and support our family has received. Thanks to all for the prayers, comments, emails and phone calls.
I'm loading up the car and getting ready to head out to pick Denny up from work. I'm also thinking about our situation and the challenges that lie ahead. There are 2 choices: 1) Do nothing; or 2) Fight and win, once again, against this cancer. We pick choice number 2. BRING IT ON! Team Woodruff is ready....
Love to all,
Deb
We are amazed by the outpouring of love and support our family has received. Thanks to all for the prayers, comments, emails and phone calls.
I'm loading up the car and getting ready to head out to pick Denny up from work. I'm also thinking about our situation and the challenges that lie ahead. There are 2 choices: 1) Do nothing; or 2) Fight and win, once again, against this cancer. We pick choice number 2. BRING IT ON! Team Woodruff is ready....
Love to all,
Deb
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Invictus
Final preparations are underway for our trip to St. Louis. My mom is coming in from Missouri today. Denny and I will leave around noon tomorrow. He wants to get a half day's work in.
There has been one change to our plans. Originally, we were going to stay with Denny's sister, Anita. However, the doctors want Denny to be close to the hospital when he is discharged. Therefore, when we leave tomorrow, we will be going to a lodge operated by the American Cancer Society. It is about 1 mile from the hospital. I will be staying there for the duration; Denny will be there when he is discharged.
Of course, thousands of thoughts are racing through our minds like dandelion fluff floating in the summer breeze. I'm wondering if I have everything packed, if I've taken care of the things the kids will need for school, if I paid all the bills, and if Denny is feeling positive and strong. I'm sure I have an idea of what Denny is thinking too.
Then, the oddest thing happened. I woke up this morning and the strangest memory came to my mind. When I was working at McDonnell-Douglas, before it became Boeing, I had a co-worker named Joe I. His last name was Greek and could probably take up one whole sentence. Joe was a short, homely, rotund little man with heavy jowls; kind of like a Greek Santa Claus. However, Joe had a special gift. He had a beautiful, golden voice; rich and strong like Jack Daniel's whiskey.
One day I came into work and he was standing in the middle of the room quoting passages from his favorite poem, "Invictus" by William Ernest Henley. At first, I was embarrassed for him. "Yikes", I thought. "Who does this kind of thing at work?" Then, I started to listen.
"Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever Gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
....
It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate;
I am the captain of my soul."
I can still hear his powerful voice. Isn't it strange that should be the first thing I think of this morning? Joe had serious heart problems and died not long after his office oration. The memory of that little man with the big voice was just what I needed today. Invictus!
Love to all,
Deb
There has been one change to our plans. Originally, we were going to stay with Denny's sister, Anita. However, the doctors want Denny to be close to the hospital when he is discharged. Therefore, when we leave tomorrow, we will be going to a lodge operated by the American Cancer Society. It is about 1 mile from the hospital. I will be staying there for the duration; Denny will be there when he is discharged.
Of course, thousands of thoughts are racing through our minds like dandelion fluff floating in the summer breeze. I'm wondering if I have everything packed, if I've taken care of the things the kids will need for school, if I paid all the bills, and if Denny is feeling positive and strong. I'm sure I have an idea of what Denny is thinking too.
Then, the oddest thing happened. I woke up this morning and the strangest memory came to my mind. When I was working at McDonnell-Douglas, before it became Boeing, I had a co-worker named Joe I. His last name was Greek and could probably take up one whole sentence. Joe was a short, homely, rotund little man with heavy jowls; kind of like a Greek Santa Claus. However, Joe had a special gift. He had a beautiful, golden voice; rich and strong like Jack Daniel's whiskey.
One day I came into work and he was standing in the middle of the room quoting passages from his favorite poem, "Invictus" by William Ernest Henley. At first, I was embarrassed for him. "Yikes", I thought. "Who does this kind of thing at work?" Then, I started to listen.
"Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever Gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
....
It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate;
I am the captain of my soul."
I can still hear his powerful voice. Isn't it strange that should be the first thing I think of this morning? Joe had serious heart problems and died not long after his office oration. The memory of that little man with the big voice was just what I needed today. Invictus!
Love to all,
Deb
Friday, May 7, 2010
Rumor, Humor and the Tumor
Okay, all of the speculation is gone. No more "what if's" or "when will we know?" We have the plan now.
Denny has to be at Barnes Jewish hospital at 6am on the morning of May 13th. The doctors are still saying that the surgery will take between 8 and 12 hours. Many of you have expressed a desire to be there before he goes into pre-op. Everyone is welcome but realize it is not necessary. Denny and I appreciate this but we do not expect it.
If you plan to be there, park in the south garage (first exit to the right on Kingshighway). Go to the Surgery Registration area (not Admitting/Billing). The Surgery Registration area is down the first hall, exiting right, off of the walking bridge from the south garage. If you pass elevators on the right, you have gone too far. Surgery Registration will be on the left side of the hallway. It looks like a big waiting room. (because it is a big waiting room!)
Denny will be able to talk to you there. Then, Denny and I will leave for the pre-op which I believe is on the 2nd floor. Once Denny's surgery has begun, we, the visitors, will have to go to the neurosurgery waiting room. I think it is on the 10th floor. If you come in later in the day, just ask at the information desk or the surgery registration desk.
No visitors will be allowed after the surgery or while he is in intensive care. After that, we let everyone know via this blog when he is up to visitors. Due to the high risk of infection, we have to take every precaution. They are operating in an area previously radiated. This complicates Denny's ability to heal. If you have any type of cold, fever, etc., we ask that you wait until it passes before visiting. We thank you for your understanding!
I'm asking everyone to stay positive and keep the prayers coming. I believe that you have to "see" a successful goal in order to attain it. I see many challenges ahead but I also "see" Denny's success. It reminds me of a quote that I love:
"There are two kinds of people in this world: those who finish what they start, and"
We are going to finish what we start and...claim victory! I "see" it! How about you?
Love to all,
Deb
"We will accept no defeat!" - Team Woodruff 2010
Denny has to be at Barnes Jewish hospital at 6am on the morning of May 13th. The doctors are still saying that the surgery will take between 8 and 12 hours. Many of you have expressed a desire to be there before he goes into pre-op. Everyone is welcome but realize it is not necessary. Denny and I appreciate this but we do not expect it.
If you plan to be there, park in the south garage (first exit to the right on Kingshighway). Go to the Surgery Registration area (not Admitting/Billing). The Surgery Registration area is down the first hall, exiting right, off of the walking bridge from the south garage. If you pass elevators on the right, you have gone too far. Surgery Registration will be on the left side of the hallway. It looks like a big waiting room. (because it is a big waiting room!)
Denny will be able to talk to you there. Then, Denny and I will leave for the pre-op which I believe is on the 2nd floor. Once Denny's surgery has begun, we, the visitors, will have to go to the neurosurgery waiting room. I think it is on the 10th floor. If you come in later in the day, just ask at the information desk or the surgery registration desk.
No visitors will be allowed after the surgery or while he is in intensive care. After that, we let everyone know via this blog when he is up to visitors. Due to the high risk of infection, we have to take every precaution. They are operating in an area previously radiated. This complicates Denny's ability to heal. If you have any type of cold, fever, etc., we ask that you wait until it passes before visiting. We thank you for your understanding!
I'm asking everyone to stay positive and keep the prayers coming. I believe that you have to "see" a successful goal in order to attain it. I see many challenges ahead but I also "see" Denny's success. It reminds me of a quote that I love:
"There are two kinds of people in this world: those who finish what they start, and"
We are going to finish what we start and...claim victory! I "see" it! How about you?
Love to all,
Deb
"We will accept no defeat!" - Team Woodruff 2010
Sunday, May 2, 2010
Living in an Ark
In case family and friends are watching the news, the Nashville area is experiencing severe weather & flooding. We have electric and are high & dry. The town of Lebanon and surrounding highways are under water. Denny and I are old hands at what to do in a flood. The Woodruff 4 and their menagerie of animals are safe & sound.
Love to all,
Deb
P.S. To Aunt Sharon Almond,
Thanks for the gooey butter cookies. Getting them in the mail made our day! Love you!
Love to all,
Deb
P.S. To Aunt Sharon Almond,
Thanks for the gooey butter cookies. Getting them in the mail made our day! Love you!
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